So now for the scary part of the birth story (part 2)

I will start with a timeline as this gets complicated quickly.

• Gave birth on Tuesday AM at 2:13 am. Had Sandro call to schedule an appointment with the pediatrician as soon they opened. They misunderstood that it was a birth center baby and scheduled us for Friday midday.
• Went back to the Midwife on Wednesday midday for follow-up appointment. Sadie looked a little yellow so they did a jaundice test. They also gave me my Rhogam shot since I am type O Negative. All looked good otherwise. I also got my whopping cough vax. They told me to hang out in the sun and open up the window and let the sun stay on the baby for the jaundice.
• Thursday afternoon late I get a call from the midwife that the jaundice test had a reading of 15 which was elevated and needed to be look at by the pediatrician. It just so happened we had an appointment the next day for them anyways. They told me it was not an EMERGENCY yet. 
• Friday Morning we go to the pediatrician and she is so angry with the birthing center because she said that we should have gotten an appointment right away with her since the birthing center doesn't really do much for the baby. She was also super worried about the color of Sadie as the yellow was nearly neon by this point. She had us rush to Baylor Medical for an emergency jaundice test.
• At Baylor they do the test and it was at a 28. This is critically bad at this point. So her pediatrician called around to the different hospitals in the area to get her admitted to the NICU for an emergency exchange transfusion. None in the area would take her since she was a birth center baby. She was finally able to get her admitted to Children's Medical in Dallas. 
• The ER nurses literally ripped the baby out of my arms and was working on getting an IV in her. They also made her eat a ton of formula so that it would get her to poop more and start getting the jaundice out faster. She was crying and I was crying and the world seemed to stop.
• Took ambulance during 5 o'clock traffic on a Friday to Children's medical. I had the kindest ambulance driver who let me ride in the front with him. He lived in The Colony like me and was so nice and reassuring to me as he knew I was freaking out by this point. 
• Arrive to 3 doctors & 4 NICU nurses prepping her room and the neonatal head doctor was there and she kept integrating me asking why I chose to give birth in a birthing center. She was also like you do understand the seriousness of this. Maybe it was the fact that I was crying for hours before we arrived and I had a deer in headlights look on my face but of course I knew it was serious. WTF. 
• They they tested the jaundice again and put her under lights and gave her fluids. They tested every hour and slowly her levels where coming down. They did not have to do the exchange transfusion. They did prep blood for it but because it could it was dangerous for a baby of this size and the levels where dropping without it they decided against it.
• During all of this Sadie was crying and whimpering and I was not able to hold her. She would not sleep but for maybe 5-10 mins at a time. By Saturday her level was 17. So she was improving steadily. They put a feeding tube in because I couldn't bf and she was not taking the bottle well.
• Sunday morning she took the turn for the worst. Her levels where stabilizing but because she was so exhausted and fluid was pumped into system her sodium levels dropped and an electrolyte imbalance caused her to have seizures. So they put her on seizure meds. The meds relaxed the brain so much she forgot to breath. So they had her on oxygen and was very close to putting her on a breathing machine. I did not see coming and I thought we where losing her. 
• She had about a billion tests run. MRI, EKG, Eco on her heart, and a Spinal Tap. They could not figure out what caused the seizures and they where worried that she had a brain disorder. Cerebral Palsy was mentioned numerous times by the doctors. She also showed a lot of stiffness in her legs and arms and they thought she could be hypotonic.
• God love the doctors and nurses but NICU doctors like to give you the worst possible outcome. They thought because she was not able to take a bottle and was not nursing well that she would have to leave the hospital with a feeding tube. The baby was exhausted and the meds made her super sleepy. It took about a week to her her somewhat normal again. They spoke of brain damage so many times because of the jaundice level and they did not know where on the spectrum Sadie will be. 
• She was in the NICU for about 10 days but now 9 weeks later she is showing no signs of damage. She is highly monitored with her blood levels since her hemoglobin is low. The pediatrician lays out the red carpet for her every time she goes in for a check. 

So you are probably wondering what caused all of this. They speculate that due to her prematurely the placenta did not get enough time to work its magic. So my blood cells could have attacked her blood cells and since I am RH negative and she is B positive that we had a incompatibility issue.  Thereby allowing the jaundice levels to take over and weaken her immune system. Some jaundice is normal but her levels where not. I am extremely appreciative for her pediatrician quick action as I could imagine that things could have turned out much worse. In the coming months she will be highly monitored and if she has delays we will deal with them as they come. For now she is doing great. Lets just hope it stays that way. 

Wednesday after midwife appointment 

Admitted to NICU Friday

At 9 weeks

Sadie Erika's Birth Story (Part 1)

So to begin the last months I was in a lot of pelvic pain. So much that turning in bed at night I would scream out in agony in my sleep (according to Sandro) so the morning before Sadie arrived, Monday September 29th, I could not take it anymore. I could barely walk or stand up so I tried my last resort...seeing a chiropractor. I have always been skeptical of trying this but apparently I have lived in the dark about their awesome-ness. So I called and made an appointment for that afternoon. During the entire day I was feeling a lot of pressure to pee. So I would go to the restroom and nothing would happen. I did not consider these contractions but maybe it was a sign for what was to come.

The appointment was quick. They watched me walk and told me I was off aligned. They adjusted me but told me I needed to come in a few days in a row to have a full effect. I immediately felt some relief. I slept better than ever till midnight. I woke up and ran to the restroom. I felt a gush and my mucus plug and a tiny bit of blood was in the toilet. I started screaming for Sandro and balling because I was worried I was too early (37 weeks) and I thought that my earlier appointment may have messed me up or something. Then the contractions started. Holy crap I forgotten this part. I was having trouble breathing through some of them I told Sandro to call the midwife. The midwife told me to start tracking them but if they got less than 5 minutes apart to head to the birthing center. Well they where coming 2-3 mins apart and increasing in intensity. Sandro was literally running around getting stuff ready. We had NOTHING ready for this. No car seat, no pack in play and no clothes. Also we had Sophia and we had planned to drop her off at the in laws house. 

There we all are packed in the car and the contractions are even more intense and coming back to back. There is NO time to drop off Sophia so she had to go to the birthing center with us. Thank God for smart phones and Netflix and it kept her distracted nearly the entire time. In the car I was crying out in pain. I felt terrible for frightening Sophia. But the contractions where unreal I was begging Sandro to tell me if how far it was away. It was all the way in McKinney so I knew it would take some time. I also remember him putting on a 80's radio station with soft rock hoping to calm me down. It makes me smile just thinking about how calm and collected he was. He told me later he was like going 100  mph and that he managed to get there in 15 mins. 

We arrive and and literally I felt like I was ready to push/poop this baby out. We arrived at 2:06 and I gave birth to Sadie by 2:13 on September 30th after only two pushes. The only thing I was peeved about was not getting in the water. Apparently there was no time to draw a bath. When the baby first came out I was told to look at the sex and I swore I thought I saw a penis but later on the other midwife arrives and she was like this isn't a boy it's a girl. I was obviously losing my mind or something and laughed when she told me. I was so happy it was a girl. I wanted another girl so much. She scored a 10 on the Apgar test and was 8 pounds on the dot. She also latched like a champ. No stitches and they gave me a double dose of ibuprofen. I took a mineral bath afterwards and about 4 am we were allowed to go home. Overall the birth center experience was exceptional.

Weekly Update: 26 Weeks...Rolling Rolling Rolling

How many weeks am I? 26 weeks 2 days
Total weight gain/loss: Blah. Roly Poly checking in.
Maternity clothes? For bottoms most definitely. Tops and dresses I can pull off XL and 1XL
Stretch marks? OMG yes.
Sleep: Honestly sleep has been good. I only have to pee a few times a night. I do have issues getting comfortable at times. Especially if I am just trying to relax. My heartburn has been unbearable.
Best moment this week: Sophia grabbing my belly and wanting to kiss it over. She is currently
obsessed with the belly.
Movement: I am nearly at the ALL THE TIME stage. Mornings are quiet. But during the day it kicks all the time. Sometimes it feels good and others I am like wait a second there madam (yep I refer to her as a girl) soccer player..take it easy.
Food cravings: Frito Pie - Though I recently got this fufilled.
Labor Signs: Not at all.
What I miss: Not feeling exhausted to just get out of bed. I am getting in the rolling out of bed phase and not wanting to bend over phase. I just leave stuff on the floor nowadays.
What I am looking forward to: I am looking forward to my next u/s. Oddly enough I am more excited about this one. I am hoping that the CPP moves out of the way. 3 more weeks.
Weekly Wisdom: Train your kid to pick stuff up off the ground. Offer stickers or whatever for good behavior. :)
Milestones: 26 Weeks - Viability baby! Of course that doesn't mean I want her to come now. Stay in there another 3 ish months baby!

We have been busy little bees at the Juric household. Currently working on Sophia's bedroom. She is getting a big girl room. She wanted to have a pink/purple room with rainbow-ish butterflies. We plan to do it when she is visiting her Nana in a few weeks and do a big reveal upon her return. We also decided not to do anything for the nursery but make a few repairs. Maybe invest in a good glider so baby can be rocked in this room. Since we are going gender neutral the nursery should work for this. (Green and Yellow)

Here is a few work in progress pictures:

Mauve Magic

Sophia working hard.

Coat #1

After the 2nd coat.

 Inspiration Pictures: 

23 Weeks - Weekly Update

How many weeks am I? 23 weeks 4 days
Total weight gain/loss: A lot. Size of Texas coming soon. :)
Maternity clothes? I have pretty much wear whatever makes me look less big. Maternity seems to swallow me a little but sometimes regular clothes make me appear bigger.
Stretch marks? OMG yes.
Sleep: Some nights are good but lately the baby likes to wake me with a few punches right before the alarm goes off.
Best moment this week: Seeing the kicks from the outside. I tried to get it on video but of course baby liked to tease me with it and then stops as soon as try to record it.
Movement: See above. Lots of movement some days. Some a little quieter.
Food cravings: White Powdered Donuts. Can't stop thinking about it.
Labor Signs: Lets hope not!
What I miss: Working out/being active. Sometimes the laziness is hard for me. Also it leads to boredom.
What I am looking forward to: I am looking forward to starting on Sophia room and working on baby room. We are almost in the 3 month stretch. :)
Weekly Wisdom: It's good to try something new. It can be a great distraction.
Milestones: I am nearly 24 weeks. They say that baby can survive outside of the body at 26 weeks. Of course they need to cook as long as possible.

I have been super busy with work lately. I transitioned to my new role as a VMS recruiter. It's not so bad but I still have a lot to learn. I definitely been a lot less emotional being I am less in the spotlight at work. I also get to be part of team and see people on a daily basis. I think this makes me feel a little more part of the company.

Other than than things have been moving along. Sophia starts her private pre K in mid August. She is currently going to private swim lessons as well. So she is going awesome. We are working on a few things like independence. I want her to be able to dress her self and take care of her room on her own. The reward chart seems to curve her tantrums and whining. She has to earn so many stickers to get a toy of her choice or a app for iPad. So she seems into it.

18-20 Week Scan - Very Good News and not such good news.

So I am 21 (Nearly 22 weeks) weeks at the moment and the baby is growing well. Likes to hang out by my belly button. Has all the major body parts and was very active. So far so good on the baby development but of course a Juric baby can't have no complications. My placenta decided to head south. Not to get warmer of course but directly over my cervix. This is called complete Placenta Previa (CPP) and can be dangerous for a few reasons mainly for premature labor and possible bleeding in the 2nd and 3rd tri. So what does it look like?

So what will this mean for me? 

Don't Move to much - I have to be extra careful not to fall so limited exercise. I also have to sit down a lot because the more pressure you put on the placenta the more likelihood it could cause a blood vessel to pop. I can walk for a short periods but that is about it. No heavy lifting. No trying to carry a 4 year old. Keeping calm, stress free and my feet up is the best position for me now.

Don't let anything in my body -  I am on Pelvic Rest or really nothing is to enter into my hoo-haa. So that also means no cervical checks especially if I go to the ER. It's closed for the next 4 months.

Be close to a Hospital - If any spotting or bleeding begins call the doctor right away. If the bleeding is heavy or is accompanied by contractions go to the ER. So this basically restricts me to the house for the next 4 months. So there goes my travel plans for the July 4th holiday.

Extra Pictures of the Baby - I have two extra ultasounds to check on the previa. One at 28 weeks and again at 32 weeks. They want to see if the placenta will away from the cervix. It's possible but being that I am 21 weeks it's unlikely. Trying to stay positive, yo!

Possibility for Bedrest - So if I do get bleeding and/or contractions I will be highly monitored. Likely this can lead to bedrest. Also it could mean I do this in the hospital. Lets just hope I don't have any bleeding episodes.

Get the Baby Out by Surgery - If this previa does not clear up and I have even a partial pervia I have to have a mandatory scheduled c/s at the latest of 38 weeks. Sometimes as early as 37 weeks. So there goes my hope of natural child birth. (this is the only real debbie downer for me)

I am trying to see the silver lining in this all. I have a amazing doctor who basically told me not to worry. She seems nearly positive that I will make it to 38 weeks and things will be fine. She also said that baby is doing really well and is developing perfectly. She wants me to focus on the positives and just take it easy. Follow her advice and she will see me through this. I am also very thankful for medical science and will just put all my faith into this and just hope for the best. Without medical science this would be a much more gloomy situation.

Thanks for everyone's continued prayers. We need them more than you can imagine at the moment.

So of course I will leave with a picture of the baby. We are still team green in case you where wanting to know the sex.

****Please ignore my ugly voice! I always sound horrible during videos.

Weekly Update - Short and Sweet

How far along? 20 wks 5 days

Total weight gain/loss: Way to much! But totally fine with it. 

Maternity clothes? Mixture still but feel most comfortable in maternity clothes.

Stretch marks? Yes and my belly is itchy. 

Sleep: Some are majorly intense and it gets super hard for me to wake in the morning when they are good. I think I am just getting more tired. 

Best moment this week: Trying out Torchy's Tacos for the first time. The Queso was amazing and it made me happy for a few days.

Movement: Still off and on. Some days more active than others. 

Food cravings: Queso...NOM!

Labor Signs: Lets hope not!

What I miss: My sanity. I hate being teary eyed at random times. I literally cry a lot more than I want to. I have been going through some stressful times at work. 

What I am looking forward to: We have our Anatomy Scan next week.I can't wait to see how the baby is doing. 

Weekly Wisdom: I will quote the late Maya Angelou "You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them." 

Milestones: I was half baked officially on last Sunday. :)

Piano Bar with Sophia. Scared her a little.

Passed out after our long drive to PCB

The Beach!

One of many pretty sunsets.

Pool Time!

Sophia will also be Daddy's little girl.

Weekly Update - Mothers Day Recap

How far along? 17 weeks 3 days

Total weight gain/loss: Sigh. Too much.
Maternity clothes? Still a mixture but some of my favorite summer skirts are tight. :(
Stretch marks? One side is darker than the other.
Sleep: Crazy dreams like always. But I have been getting up a little less to pee.
Best moment this week: Telling Sophia she is going to be big sister.
Movement: Off and on. Just rumbles sometimes.
Food cravings: No cravings this week.
Labor Signs: Lets hope not!
What I miss: Coffee!! I miss the morning ritual. I miss the 3 cups I had daily. I miss the spunk I felt. I drag now for like 2 hours before I can even function.
What I am looking forward to: Preparing for our top secret road trip next week. Sophia has no idea. We are planning to leave right after work on Thursday.
Weekly Wisdom: Maybe have a game plan on how to explain to a 4 year old how a baby got in Mama's belly.
Milestones: Nothing this week.

Mothers day weekend was super nice. My bro and mom came down from Austin to visit. I was a tad emotional on Saturday. I learned valuable lesson that I have anxiety when things don't go exactly as planned. Anxiety leaves  me grumpy and just a negative Nancy in general. This is not a productive way to be and at least I recognize I have a issue.  So once I was able to get past that I was able to relax and enjoy the weekend.

We had brunch at our house on Sunday. It turned out nicely. DH made my two favorite seafood dishes. Scallops with pasta and then his special caramelized shrimps. I can't believe how little of leftovers we had. It had been several years since we hosted something for the family and it was nice to show off the new office. Sophia was in full cuteness mode and did a special Elsa Dance for everyone. Loved it.

My MIL talked me into telling Sophia. Really I was ready but I was avoiding it because Sophia can and will ask a billion questions. Sophia is excited and she is insisting that it's a brother.  She just tells everyone mama is carrying a baby boy in her belly. I have told her a few times that we don't know what it is yet. We have about 23 more weeks of waiting.

Some other highlights/funnies from Sophia:
She is said she is scared mama is going to explode..she ran from my belly a few times
She wants to kiss my belly over and over..she is currently obsessed with my belly.
She asked what will happen to mama when she goes to the hospital. Who will take care of her?
She called the baby a monster a few times. She like.... "I knew it was a monster..just knew it!" - Sandro laughed nonstop for a few minutes when she said it like that.

I did get her a book about being a big sister. She has requested it every night since. It's a cute book and the little girl is just like Sophia with her sassy attitude.

Half of our spread. 

Roses from BIL and Inlaws

Link to Video:
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=10152419091097673&l=8663665742774979059

Weekly Update - Nursery Inspiration

How far along? 16 weeks 3 days
Total weight gain/loss: It is sad but I think it's close to 15 at this point. I have gained a pound a week. Nearly 5 pounds last month.
Maternity clothes? Still a mixture but some of my favorite summer skirts are tight. :(
Stretch marks? Yep. But it's normal and I don't mind it much.
Sleep: I had the craziest dream last night. All I know is it required me to be IT and while I do this it's not really my strongest ability.
Best moment this week: Feeling some little flutters. Usually in the AM and sometimes on top of my bladder. I researched it a little and its called quickening and it's not kicking but the baby rolling around. I love this phase.
Movement: See above.
Food cravings: Nothing lately. I have noticed a new desire for pickles. Especially fried pickles. I never really liked pickles before so it's interesting to want to eat them on things. I found a random bottle in the pantry and thought to myself why aren't these in the fridge and what can I eat them with.
Labor Signs: Lets hope not!
What I miss: Bending over without feeling annoyance. Especially while doing laundry. For some reason this is getting super hard to do lately. But I have google researched it does not hurt that baby at all.
What I am looking forward to: We are doing a mother's day brunch at my house. I love brunch!
Weekly Wisdom: Start getting used to bending with the knees. It's good for strength building.
Milestones: I am headed towards half baked. Time seems to be going faster this time around.

So for those of you who don't know we are not finding out the sex this time. But we have now agreed on a color scheme since this will be the next room to paint. We will be reusing Sophia's dresser and crib. So it will be a dark cherry wood. We will likely not split colors like the below. I will probably have some sort of tree decals on the wall. I like the brighter yellow though.

Inspiration Picture - Not actually room and I am not the photo owner.

Inspiration Picture - Not actually room and I am not the photo owner.

Inspiration Picture - Not actually room and I am not the photo owner.

Inspiration Picture - Not actually room and I am not the photo owner.

Inspiration Picture - Not actually room and I am not the photo owner.

Weekly Update

How far along? 15 weeks 3 days
Total weight gain/loss: I am thinking close to 10 total but I am not sure. I am gaining like a fright train unfortunately.
Maternity clothes? A mixture. Definitely maternity tights and pants.
Stretch marks? Yes. Getting Dark again and my Linea Nigra has made it's appearance once again
Sleep: Crazy dreams as always. I can fall asleep fast but I usually wake up about 3 a.m. and have trouble falling sleep or getting comfortable. The last two nights I had heartburn which I stopped with tums right away and was able to get to sleep again somewhat fast.
Best moment this week: So far after much debate about what family mini trip we would take, Sandro got us a condo stay in Panama City during memorial day weekend. (it's a birthday gift) Super excited.
Movement: I call it wishful thinking flutters but I think it's likely gas. Since half of the time it exits in one way or another.
Food cravings: The only thing that is kinda on my mind is German Chocolate cake for my birthday.
Labor Signs: Lets hope not!
What I miss: I am not missing much lately. The heartburn is somewhat mild compared to last time. I guess you can say cheese since I am limiting it. It seems to be helping with the constipation issues I was having.
What I am looking forward to: To hearing the heartbeat on Thursday for my regular appointment. Also some more flutters. I am scared that since my placenta is outside facing it may be awhile before I feel much.
Weekly Wisdom: It is true that 2nd time pregnancies you show quicker. Holy crap!
Milestones: Nada really!

So yes, I have been secretly saving images of me and my growing body for the last month or so. Just a few pictures but I thought I would share. I am not sad I am gaining a ton of weight or anything but it's just incredible how your body has a memory after 5 years and bam you look 5-6 months pg and you are only 4. Crazy.

12 Weeks

13 weeks

15 weeks

Juicy Details or maybe TMI for some

You are probably wondering about why I haven't updated my blog. I think honestly I have been going through some tough stuff. Well we really have been going through a rough patch. Let me just jump right in. In August of 2013 we got pregnant again. Of course we where scared but we where feeling very hopeful. I went into my first appointment at 8 weeks. We had a very strong heartbeat and thought things where progressing well. Two weeks later (close to DD's birthday) I started spotting. I was almost 11 weeks. We where told that the heart stopped beating at 8 week 1 day. It was gut punch like no other. I had already ordered a big sister shirt for Sophia. I was going to announce to the grandparents that weekend since it was her birthday weekend. This was not supposed to happen this way. We decided to do a natural m/c with drugs. It was quick and the recovery was even quicker. Not like the previous time but still gut wrenching. 

I knew in my heart that I wanted to try right away. But Sandro was hesitant. He was scared that it would take me straight into insanity. We argued about it but we also talked and sorted through our feelings. He is a very logical person and he felt that maybe it wasn't our destiny to have a 2nd child. He was perfectly content with just Sophia. I felt differently of course. I felt like there was a missing piece to our family and I wasn't willing to just give up. We come up with a plan. We would try at least twice more however we would have to get tested for genetic issues and clotting disorders. Also, if we did try we would have to be in the mode of lets just see what happens. I could not let TTC rule my entire life. We decided to wait until after the new year. We did go through the testing process and we both came up completely clean for genetic issues. The 3 m/c I had in the past where considered unknown. I also had no clotting issues that they can find but recommended that start a baby aspirin regimen as well as extra folic acid as soon as possible. 

 I was not tempting and I was only tracking when my period was. I did not think we had sex during my ovulation period since we decided mid month to just try but not try again. I only took 1 digital pg test in the first week of Feb (maybe a few OPK's) and low and behold it said I was pregnant. I was really scared and I wanted to cry. How could my body want this so bad yet wouldn't let me have this pg? It was very mixed emotionally and I tried not to get too excited. Since I have had two m/c with my doctor she had me come in early. I had my first appointment at 7 wk 3 days. We saw a heartbeat but the sac was oddly shaped. She told that it's totally fine. That sometimes it just looks weird. The HB was strong. She wanted to see me weekly, every Thursday at the same time. She wanted to put my fears at ease. I do love my new doctor. She is so vibrant and honest and I just think she knows how to deal people. 

So I went weekly. I did have one incident of spotting and of course my mind went to that place. She saw me two days early that week (week 9). I thought for sure it was over. Baby was just fine. No blood was in my uterus. No SCH to be found. It turns out a had a UTI. I never had a UTI before in my life. But apparently it can make you spot. Only when I was dehydrated and usually in the AM after multiple pee breaks. I had to start antibiotics but it was gone after a 10 day treatment. 

So far I have had 5 6 ultrasounds The last one was my NT scan. I got my blood report on 4/21/2014 and it says that I have nearly 1 in 6 billion chance of having a baby with downs. I have better luck winning the lottery. I felt I needed to come out of the closet my growing belly and the office rumors where creeping in. I waited now 10 weeks to tell the world it was time. I still haven't told Sophia but I know that is coming soon. I am sure she will notice my growing belly and start asking her inquisitive questions. Part of me is still scared but I a trying to have hope at this point and I need to let the world know. I hope that this gives up with those who are struggling. Trying to conceive after a/multiple losses is so very difficult. There are no words to the amount of worry and anxiety one goes through. 

No u/s pic for Week 7.

8 weeks

9 weeks  (skipped week 10, no good shots)

11.5 weeks

13.5 weeks